Bangkok culture & etiquette

Thailand has strict lese-majeste laws (Section 112): insulting the King, Queen, heir, or regent is a serious crime with prison sentences. Don't joke about, criticise, or deface images of the royal family — including on banknotes and coins, which bear the King's image. Stand still during the royal anthem in cinemas.

The wai (palms pressed together, slight bow) is the Thai greeting and sign of respect. Generally let the more senior person initiate, and return it with hands at chest-to-nose height. Don't wai children, waitstaff, or shopkeepers — a smile and nod is fine there.

Never touch anyone's head, even a child's. Don't point your feet at people, Buddha images, or photos of the King, and don't step over someone. Point with your whole hand, not a finger, and remove or tuck your feet when sitting near a shrine.

Remove your shoes before entering homes, temples, many guesthouses, some shops, and even certain offices and clinics. Watch for a pile of shoes at the door — that's your cue. Slip-on shoes make life much easier.

Losing your temper, raising your voice, or shouting in public makes you 'lose face' and is seen as deeply embarrassing in Thailand. The cultural ideal is jai yen (a cool heart). Stay calm and smiling even when frustrated — you'll get far better results.

At temples (wat) such as Wat Pho or the Grand Palace, cover shoulders and knees — no shorts, short skirts, or sleeveless tops. Sarongs are sometimes rented at the gate. Women must never touch a monk or hand anything directly to one.